Meeting Lev caused John to understand that he had the potential to become a parent. He admitted to never expecting to have children due to his advanced age. Shortly after, they introduced their eldest son, Zachary, born in 2010 through a surrogate, and their second son, Elijah, in 2013.
Raising children away from the public eye.
Even though they were very busy, the couple desired to be actively involved in raising their children. Furnish expressed a reluctance to entrust the care of children to nannies and housekeepers. Deciding to have children was the couple’s greatest choice, and going forward, their top priority is to raise their sons in a happy and healthy way.
John penned a touching letter to his sons, conveying the impact they have had on his life. “Zachary and Elijah, you both are the most wonderful blessings I have ever received.” The singer wrote that you have poured love into my heart and given purpose and meaning to my life in ways I didn’t imagine.
John and Furnish are pleased with the lovely family they have created. Parents want their children to always remember the love and support they will receive as they grow up.
After becoming a father, John started sharing about how his outlook on life shifted and the essential values he and his husband want to teach their kids.
John discussed how becoming a parent impacted his financial relationship. Having two children has made him prioritize spending quality time with Zachary and Elijah over creating a hit song or painting.
The singer admitted that he and Furnish used to spend a large amount of money before starting a family, due to being used to a lifestyle where they were the focus. However, ever since their arrival Regarding their sons, John mentioned that they have greatly decreased their expenses.
Currently, the couple is concentrating on ensuring they possess only the necessities. They have also been educating their children about the importance of money and the effort required to acquire it.
John knows his children are already living comfortably, but he wants them to continue being humble. Hence, the singer has stated that he does not intend to leave his entire estate to them. On the other hand, he desires to find a middle ground between providing his children with a good life and ensuring they remain humble. He came to the conclusion by using logical thinking.
Certainly, I aim to ensure my sons are in a secure financial position. However, it is not a good idea to provide children with a privileged upbringing. “It completely destroys their livelihood.”
Since the boys were very young, John has attempted to instill in them an understanding of the importance of money. At the ages of five and three, Zachary and Elijah may not have comprehended the extent of their parents’ fame, but John and Furnish made sure to educate them on managing finances.
The singer announced in 2016 that they would receive £3 ($3.74) as pocket money for helping out in the kitchen or garden. Next, each coin will be divided among charity, savings, and spending. As they aged, their responsibilities included tidying their rooms and earning a star for each task completed.
The couple recognizes that their children’s upbringing is unconventional, yet they strive to incorporate some semblance of normality in their daily routines. John disclosed that his children reside in a manner similar to locals, free from the confines of a luxurious mansion.
He acknowledged the potential drawbacks but believes the public is “smart” when it comes to raising kids in the public eye.
John and his husband usually keep their sons out of social media, but the “Rocket Man” singer shared a rare photo of Furnish, their sons, and their godmother, Lady Gaga. The singer expressed how he was sad to have missed out on the moment to pose with them but still sent his love.
Fans in the comment section were shocked at how much Zachary and Elijah had grown. “My goodness, the boys are getting tall. Such Handsome little gentlemen.” said a commenter. “Look at these gorgeous boys and their pappa and Godma!” added another fan.
John wrote a heartwarming letter to his sons, expressing how much they have changed his life. “Zachary and Elijah, you two are the greatest gifts I have ever been given. You have filled my heart with love and my life with purpose and meaning in ways I didn’t think were possible,” wrote the singer.
John and Furnish are happy with the beautiful family they have built. One thing they do not want their children to forget as they grow is the love and support they will always receive from their parents.
