Tension between billionaire tech mogul Elon Musk and his estranged, transgender daughter Vivian Wilson spilled into public view this week after she spoke out to counter her fatherâs claims that she is âdead â killed by the woke mind virus.â
In an interview with Jordan Peterson, Musk alleged he had been âtrickedâ into approving gender-affirming care for Wilson at 16 and had subsequently âlostâ his son. The experience, he said, made him an ardent opponent of gender-affirming care and fueled his quest to âdestroy the woke mind virus.â
On X after the interview, Musk said that his child was born âgay and slightly autisticâ and claimed these traits âcontribute to gender dysphoria.â Wilson shot back soon after on Threads, dismissing her fatherâs characterization of her childhood as âentirely fake.â She criticized him for peddling harmful stereotypes about trans and queer people in âan attempt to garner sympathy points.â
âHe doesnât know what I was like as a child because he quite simply wasnât there,â the 20-year-old said in one post. And when her father was present, Wilson said, he ârelentlessly harassedâ her for her âfemininity and queerness.â
Washington Post reporters called and texted a phone number for Wilson but did not get a response. Musk did not respond to emailed requests for comment from The Post.
The dispute marks a rare public spat between Wilson and Musk, whose frustrations over her transition have been central to his well-documented rightward political shift. In recent years, Musk has been embraced by prominent conservatives such as Tucker Carlson, spoken out against corporate diversity initiatives and amplified right-wing commentators on social media.
On X, the social media platform he owns, he has decried gender pronouns with statements that have drawn backlash, even from those close to him.
âI absolutely support trans, but all these pronouns are an esthetic nightmare,â Musk wrote in late 2020. In response to a tweet earlier that year where he wrote âPronouns suck,â he was admonished by his then-partner Grimes, who asked him to stop and said she could not âsupport hate,â news outlets reported.
In the Peterson interview, Musk characterized the gender-affirming treatments that Wilson received, including puberty blockers, as âchild mutilation and sterilization.â
Musk also told Peterson that permitting children to change their gender identity is âincredibly evilâ and that those who advocate for gender-affirming care for young people âshould go to prison.â
Vivian is one of six children that the billionaire has had with Justine Wilson, a writer. He also has three children with Grimes, a musician, and three children with Shivon Zilis, an executive at Muskâs Neuralink company.
Many states have banned gender-affirming care for transgender minors. A majority of Americans oppose puberty-blocking medications and hormonal treatments for trans children, according to a Washington Post-KFF poll, although the American Psychological Association has said the ability to access such treatments improves the overall well-being of those youths.
Puberty blockers prevent the release of sex hormones. Once a patient stops taking blockers, their body immediately returns to producing its natal hormones.
Although Musk used the term âsterilization,â doctors who treat trans patients say puberty blockers alone do not cause infertility. Puberty blockers have been used for years on children who experience precocious puberty, and they are âreversible no matter what,â said Marci Bowers, one of the nationâs preeminent gender transition surgeons and the president of the World Professional Association for Transgender Health.
But a patientâs outcomes will vary based on when they start on the blockers, whether they take cross-sex hormones and how long they remain on the medication.
After the Peterson interview, Musk was criticized for âdeadnamingâ his child â referring to her by her birth name and gender. Othersâ refusal to use pronouns that trans- and gender-expansive youths use is a common, devastating problem for them, according to the Human Rights Campaign, which says that half of those youths say their family âneverâ refers to them with accurate pronouns.
Musk was criticized by LGBTQ+ advocates this year after he said that âcisâ and âcisgenderâ would be treated as slurs on X. Last year, he defended a policy that allowed users to misgender people on the platform as a matter of âfree speech.â
LBGTQ+ youth are being negatively affected by âhostile political rhetoric that often targets them, including from high-profile figures like Elon Musk,â said Jared Todd, senior press secretary for the Human Rights Campaign.
âIn a world where Musk could use his public status for good, he chooses to use trans youth as a scapegoat,â Todd said Friday in an emailed statement to The Post. âItâs both sad and unsurprising given his history.â
In recent years, Todd said, the HRC has called out Musk for policies that have made X âa place where harmful rhetoric and bullying can spread unchecked.â He cited Muskâs recent decision to move the headquarters of SpaceX and X away from California in protest of a new state law barring school districts from requiring parents to be notified of a childâs change in gender identity.
âMuskâs ignorant and inflammatory views on the trans community â even his own daughter â are out-of-step with those of a majority of Americans, and a permanent stain on his character and reputation,â Todd said.
Wilson and Musk have been distant for some time, Wilson told NBC on Thursday in her first public interview. She formally severed ties with the billionaire more than two years ago.
âI no longer live with or wish to be related to my biological father in any way, shape or form,â Wilson stated in a petition filed with California Superior Court in April 2022, when she sought to officially change her name.
Wilsonâs pushback against her father has garnered support online, including from Grimes, the musician who has children with the Tesla CEO.
âI love and am forever endlessly proud of Vivian,â Grimes said Thursday in an X post.